Why be Jennifer Green?

On occasion I am surreptitiously asked (with humorously piercing eye contact or none at all): Why are you an escort? Do you enjoy this? Accompanied by the oft ignored elephant in the room, do you like me?

The obvious answers are financial stability does a lot more than get me wet and I’ve been given the kind of freedom I expected to find much later in life. The more Jennifer specific answer is that this satiates much of what I’ve been missing from my life.

My previous occupations revolved around some human contact, usually with a degree of separation (phones, computer, rules around propriety). I loved all these jobs as they highlighted parts of myself that I didn’t know I possessed and then improved upon them greatly. (The biggest three being my extremely lacking patience, listening and communication skills). Above all was an opportunity to connect with people I would not meet otherwise and endless opportunities to discover myself. This industry fulfills those needs and all the ones I wasn’t sure how to ask for.

The variety is slowly causing me to adjust to change and begin to crave it, it forces me to pivot constantly, and I’ve held a strong love for that specific sort of pressure. There are continual opportunities for me to build a range of skills; as is with running a business – there’s always something to do or improve upon. Ferreting that out delights me. Above all my love for direct human connection, physical and emotional is celebrated.

My burgeoning love of variety in life has always extended to how I desire my romance. It would be too simple to call myself insatiable – the more accurate and elaborate is that I have a gentle curiosity that has yet to find limits in any sort of love. The short and more accurate term: I’m a slut for affection. The boundaries of this space allow for a limited breadth and unimaginable depths of connection, which is why I am here. Clear boundaries and communication (which I’m still learning) create a safe space to share desires and cheer each other on in life. I feel accepted and appreciated by my people here as they have shown me that value lies in my eccentricities and pickiness.

My ‘grand and lofty’ measurement of success here is to create lasting memories that will bring a smile and flush of joy in hot years to come (that’s a global warming joke, begin to laugh). The building blocks of that are focusing on creating quality connections and flirting far too much, which you can help with.

(The shorter, cockier answer: I rarely do anything I don’t like and never for more than five minutes. I prefer to set boundaries to lying and I delight in puzzling out people. I’m picky and decisive. I will never see anyone I do not like more than twice. Yes, I like you. Probably a lot).

Thanks for reading this pared down diary entry.

(those are my motion sickness bands)