An Interview of Sorts

What are you like?

Observant, open, curious, possessing a good memory, tactfully direct and honest to a fault. Slightly ditzy in that I’ll be cranky all day and then randomly eat then be shocked at how happy I suddenly am. I tend to make slightly shocking or sarcastic statements softly when I want a slight rise out of someone.

I am complimented most on: my eyes, hair, smile, being “comfy,” told that I am ‘self-possessed and self-aware,’ passionate, present, very funny, and ‘an original.’ I have a philosophical bone to pick with half of the list. Tell me which half.

What kind of people gravitate towards you?

I normally attract people who are shy and/or a bit “out of the ordinary,” both personally and as an escort. I have an easy-going, down to earth yet decisive personality, so I imagine that’s what they enjoy in me. They have a place in my heart for their bravery in meeting me and pursuing a relationship with me.

I also tend to attract older men who like to be teased a bit. I think they like my penchant for being mischievous. I like them because they have stories and are generally tactile (a personal favorite).

I disagree with the sentiment that I am a nerd (I have not seen nearly enough to qualify), I tend to get along swimmingly with nerds. They tell me that I need to be more transparent about it because I’m too undercover. I usually find that amusing and am currently taking it into consideration.

What are you afraid of? Angry about?

I am deeply terrified of losing touch with myself, but focus on the fact that I have found myself before and I seem to have a knack for it.

Furious at how much history has been lost, how resources and community is mishandled, and how we treat nature.

What is something that you are proud of?

Someone - myself. My family, friends. You. All of us, I am deeply proud of and deeply disappointed in humanity. I am proud of people who retain their curiosity; their sense of humor and levity; a casual kindness for others; anyone who tries something new, fails hard and perseveres; a continued willingness to open up and connect with new people. These are the things I find value in.

But that’s not the question I was supposed to answer, so something: the ocean, soil, and the Mysterious Beyond (nod to Land Before Time)

What are physical things do you like/are attracted to? What turns you on?

I am very tempted to be flippant and say “flirt with me and find out.”

I enjoy being held and listening to someones chest as they talk to me. I love silent prolonged eye contact, just feeling the other person’s existence. People who know to take their time and let things build naturally and slowly - they’re the ones in my head at night.

There are a few clues here if you’re good at searching and reading in between the lines.

Go to vice?

Sex and books. Moving to new places (hence moving to Boston mid pandemic).

I want to know if we’ll vibe artistically, what are you into?

The short answer is: I’m rather eclectic in my tastes.

I grew up on a lot of old kung-fu movies (think Jackie Chan, Jet Li), westerns and 50/60s black-and-whites. At the time, I wanted to watch things that were ‘cooler.’ As a result, I watch many animes but the deed has been done and now I enjoy all of the above, with a dash of the occasional romcom and many foreign (Bollywood, Korean) films.

I did not listen to music until I was around 16. Fortunately I was a very dramatic teenager who was deeply into heavy metal, rock, and string instruments. Around university, my tastes softened and allowed for more classic and modern R&B, jazz, and indie/folk music.

What does a perfect day look like to you?

Waking up alone, spending intimate time with myself before heading to a farmers market and bakery for fresh fruit and pastries to eat in the sun on a terrace.

Putting on a dress that twirls nicely and shoes that can handle miles of rock and stone. Heading on a long, quiet walk or bike ride with someone who doesn’t mind that I keep stopping to look at everything.

Packing a picnic and a book to spend time with a lover by a river, having them read to me. Falling into their voice, falling asleep in the shade.

Taking them to look at art (films, paintings, sculpture) and sinking into it for a few hours, before gradually realizing the fact that we can’t stop mimicking the faces of babies as an indication that it’s time to go.

Having an old cuisine in a new way before heading to a bar with dim lights and live music, remembering how well our bodies move together. Getting very distracted and staying up exploring how loud I can scream. You may also get to scream. As a treat.

Who were you in a past life?

Likely polyamorous and very spiritual. I find it likely as I love humans with ease. I think I have been a woman for a length of lives, yet it is likely that I have not always been by the balance of my energy. I would believe that I am an old spirit but not more so than 300 years.

Ask me why?